Tell them you love them…
Blast in Pune! That was the last thing i had expected. Its too near… Mom-in-law came up to my room late in the night (about 10) and told me that there was a blast at german bakery in Pune… My first thought was about my brothers – Chaitanya, Ashwin & Ashutosh…
I had left my cell phone in the car and their numbers were in it. The car was with Rohit. I didn’t know how to contact any one of them. I called up mom but took care not to scare her… But she told me that they had spoken to Chaitanya and everyone’s well and safe. I could not help the tears that started flowing from my eyes… The only question that bugged me was, What if???
There are so many what if‘s in our lives… But this one was just too close… being the elder sister, i’ve always been protective about not just my brother, but my two cousins also (we grew up together in a joint family). All 3 of them are in Pune and anyone of them could have been in Koregao Park that evening for all we know. Just how sure can I be that they will be safe? How sure can i be that I will be safe?
I know, people will argue that if anything has to happen it can happen even when you’re at home… but even then, the thought of not being able to tell the person how much you love them is really scary…
There’s just one thing that we can do… Meet the other person showing that you’re glad that he/she is there! and part like you might never meet again!! Tell them frequently that you love them… there is no such thing as a perfect time and place to tell people you love that you do… Do it as and when you can… call your parents, friends Right Now… Dont wait for some other day… That way even if anything goes wrong, we will have a satisfaction that we could tell them that we loved them…
Love you Chaitanya… Ashwin & Ashutosh… Take care…
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